Dating question?

So this is for everyone, girls and guys.  So you have some choices when it comes to dating obviously.  Do you try and go out of your league either way or stay about the same?  Either way meaning, you reach for the fences and go for that unbelievable person that you don't think will even give you the time of the day or do you go to the minors and go for that someone that you know would give anything to be with you?  Or do you stay in your league and go for someone that could say yes or no, but your chances are better than going out of your league?

 

Then, if you have what you think is a sure thing in your league, but you're just not that into it, do you still go for the dream out of your league?  Yes, I know, you shouldn't go for something you're not interested in as its not fair to the other person.  But, being realistic, quite a few of us don't even think of that or are too scared to do anything about it.

Does this make sense?  Hit for the fences, stay put or go slumming(you know what I mean)?  Or is it just relative to the situation.  I know that's the easy answer, but what does your heart or gut tell you.  Be honest now!

Published Saturday, March 06, 2010 4:21 PM by Wrigley

Comments

# re: Dating question?

Saturday, March 06, 2010 2:32 PM by Jessica080806

For me it has always been.. when it happens it happens.. I usually find guys because we just hit it off from the start. I have had guys that I thought were sexy and thought it might be fun to be with.. but there is no point in killing yourself over someone if they aren't interested. (Not saying they weren't interested but I am talking about like celebrity guys that I have never even met before).

I have never dated anyone below my standards because why would I want to settle? No.. I have had many guys that wanted to be with me but they weren't the right match so I just let them know I am happy to be their friend and continue to be nice. If I am not into them I won't lead them on.

# re: Dating question?

Saturday, March 06, 2010 11:45 PM by Sashaine

Well,mmm what can I say to this LOL ! But anyway, here it is.. I usually got interested to a guy who is so nice and so seems just like "JET FLASH" likey, likey something like that but if i found out later that they really are not interested in me, so why sticking on them.. Just let them go..

And besides, I have only dated to a 1 guy eversince and older than me.. There were others that wanted to be with me but I just lay low on it and just happy to be their friend and not more than that..If they don't okey about it then, nothing I can do as I don't want to push myself to something that I don't like to do..

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 10:03 AM by Chris Star

I try to give just about everyone a chance. Because you never know who you could be missing out on. And you never know if you don't get the balls and go try. The worst that anyone can say to you is "no", in which case, you just move on to the next. What's meant to be will find a way.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 12:19 PM by Jessica080806

Well it is true that if you want something bad enough anything is possible.. so if you are in love with someone that doesn't know you exist the least you can do is try.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 12:57 PM by Chris Star

Exactly. Sometimes it's the ones that you don't think that are in your league that are the ones that are most intrigued with you.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 1:53 PM by Jessica080806

I was always surprised that the guys I have thought were out of my league actually liked me too. There was this one guy in high school that all the girls wanted.. it just happened that he wound up picking me! I am not sure how it happened but I never saw that one coming!

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 2:25 PM by Chris Star

See? It's always a surprise! You never know what could happen, and in turn he may have been thinking that about YOU.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 2:31 PM by Jessica080806

Yes I suppose that is true.. crazy how that works.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 2:50 PM by Wrigley

I think a lot of people don't act on it because they don't want to get crushed.  If they ever know, then the hope is still there.

I got a follow up question for next blog.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 3:01 PM by GoBears

I like comparing this to baseball, should the mate be considered the ball or the bat and can you have your own umpire to let you know when it is time for a new ball or bat?

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 3:41 PM by Jessica080806

Yeah rejection sucks.

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 3:41 PM by Jessica080806

lol baseball? so do I get to first base when I hit your ball?

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 7:17 PM by Sashaine

Oh Jess, It depends if you hit with your bat GoBears  strike ball before the catcher catch it.. The question is, do you have a bat Jess? mmmm I don't so ;) LOL !

# re: Dating question?

Sunday, March 07, 2010 8:04 PM by Jessica080806

haha yeah I don't personally carry a bat on me! :p

# re: Dating question?

Tuesday, March 09, 2010 1:14 PM by Wrigley

Here's an example:

www.traileraddict.com/.../trailer

# re: Dating question?

Tuesday, March 09, 2010 11:43 PM by Jessica080806

haha cute lol @ plane doctor